As a lot of relationship guru's will say 'best way to handle a woman's issues is to be single and avoid dating women. As long as you have a female in your life, weather a mother, sister, friends and girlfriend woman drama will be very impossible to avoid. 

So you will agree with me that the only way to handle a woman's drama or emotional issues is to learn the ways and equip yourself with the know how on how to handle a woman's emotional issues.

What are those signs that help a man to understand a woman drama in relationship? 

"why is it that women always create drama in relationship? why can't a woman be easy to understand in relationship or be cool like how your boys are cool in friendship?

we need to understand that in life, women will have to be women and boys will have to be boys.   Human being by creation are very emotional beings and women are more emotional. Emotion and a woman by nature is like their spiritual eyes. Generally women are more expressive with their emotions than a man. 

So basically, when a woman act's up in relationship, they are expressing how they feel at that given time and whenever they act up, it is because the opposite sex must have displayed a certain attitude that they are acting upon. 

It is very interesting to know that all women in relationship express their emotions but in different levels and frequency also this you will agree that the level of their issues will determine the level of what the opposite sex did. 

women with high emotions tend to act up almost all the time,  while ladies with dispassionate emotions cause lesser emotional unrest. Emotional unrest in a woman some times is encourage by how beautiful the lady is and how well define she like her taste or better still, how expensive she is.  Beautiful and very expensive ladies tender to be very spoil and when those need are usually not meet by her partner, they tend to act emotionally and very displeasing. 

There are key factors to always look at for whenever a lady start acting emotionally: Annoyance a) frustrated b) and scared c).  So when your woman start acting up with the mood swing attitude, sulking, yelling at you and crying, these are generally the cause of their action act that given time. 

Emotional issues in woman can be of two main factors

Respect base Drama

this type of drama a woman show to a man when she is loosing respect for you as a man such as,

1. Being straight to the point: Women by nature are not patient with things that involves their hear and feelings and when a lady show a guy this part of her, it is because she feels or think that the guy is not being straight with her in the relationship more like your true intensions with her.
2. Moving too slow: Any woman who has showed her intension towards a guy more like green light and he knows or feel it that she likes him and he is not acting as a man should that might frustrate the woman to the point that she might act up on you as she might feel like your not interested in her.
3. Sex:  When sexual satisfaction is very poor in relationship, any woman will be mad at her partner. It is often advice to both parties in relationship to always talk about their sexual satisfaction. Because it is very important to know your partner sexual abilities. Some lady has high sex drive and if their partner is not a sex crazy guy, it becomes an issue. 
4. Focusing on your carrier and goals: A woman by nature like a builder, a man who has what it takes to control, build and lead. Every woman like a man who is very ambitious in life. If a man is not very particular with his goals aspiration and what he wants to achieve, it frustrate a women's tendency towards him 
5. A pushover: No woman want to date a man that can't defend himself because when your woman senses that you don't have your own opinion as a guy, people can easily tell you what to do or what to expect from you, she can easily get frustrated. Every woman want to be with a man that people will respect and want to look up to and not being toss around like a nobody.

Security base Issue

this is the type of emotional issue a woman show towards a man in relationship when they don't feel valued by you. They always feel like you might leave them some day for a better woman of your dream. This type of drama they tend to show it towards you when they do not feel love, trust and support it means she don't want to loose you but just the fear that you might leave her some times trigger this emotion in her whenever she's around you.

The main emotion a woman tend to express through this drama is "fear" and if this is not address it might lead to even more greater problem in the relationship. Even in a situation when your lady start getting jealous, accusing you of being a player or having an affair outside the relationship might trigger this security base issue in the relationship. 

Hence, the better way to address this issue is to be intimate with your woman, show her caring and try to suppress all form of doubt in her mind towards your readiness in the relationship towards her.

Best way to deal with a woman's emotional unrest in relationship

Step I: Don't ignore your woman or over react when she is showing signs of emotional issues

Usually the most sensible thing that experience or more matured guys would normally do is to be calm in such situation and try to talk her out of the problem calmly and try to get her talking to your about the issue because that help the both of you. Some times you the man will understand that being defensive towards your woman only solve the problem to a certain extent. 

Ways not to respond to a woman that is showing emotional drama:

What REALLY happens when you bring her flowers in these situations.

Most guys respond to drama (a loss of frame) with placating her in the following ways:

• Comforting her, telling her she’s beautiful, or that it will be okay, or that he won’t do it again
• Reaffirming his interest in her: “I still like you, I still love you.”
• Chasing after her: “Take me back, please!”

Unfortunately, these approaches are an anti-social frame. Because guys are responding by showing more interest, more investment, and more comfort, it makes the social frame even worse. Guys start sucking up to a girl and start acting like a pussy, which is the last thing she wants!

As you probably know, such moves have disastrous results. From the perspective of frame, when a girl gives a guy drama, she is punishing him with her criticism. But most guys REWARD her acts of punishment by giving her MORE of what she already has. It’s no wonder that women are not only utterly confused but leave the situation with even more disdain, resentment, and lack of respect for the man.

This response is ONLY okay if the problem is lack of comfort, like when a guy:

• Is too unavailable
• Is deliberately emotionally detached from her and avoids connection
• Doesn’t pay enough attention or give her enough comfort

My hunch is that the lack of comfort is not the real problem. For naturals and more advanced alpha guys, it addresses most dramatic situations. It’s because the guy is avoiding intimacy and closeness with a woman when it’s what she truly wants. For the rest of you, the problem is that you did something to destroy the social frame.

The real solution: ramp up your alpha, treating her like a girl that you haven’t gamed or slept with yet. The correct response to drama is NOT to be a nice guy. It’s to treat her like a new woman, addressing the void that exists between you two.

The right way to resolve drama:

• Remove intimacy, and game her like any other girl
• Keep her at arm’s length
• Treat her as a second date and re-seduce her

Yes, you want to be at arm’s length and treat her like any other girl. Stimulate her and build investment just like you would with a new girl. Instead of asking for compliance, you’re building investment slowly until you sense that she’s ready to be brought back into the normal state of the relationship.

In previous articles, we’ve discussed that another way to treat drama is to dial up the alpha by removing yourself and soft nexting the girl. Have a listen to my podcast with Blackdragon here, and you’ll get a great idea of this. Our former author, Drexel Scott also has a great article here on how and when to soft next.

This effectively shifts to attraction game. Avoid placating a girl or building comfort or "being there for her" (these reduce her attraction). Instead, remove yourself and let her come back to you. Do this almost as if you’ve never met before, and you’re evaluating her for something more.

 

Using Drama to Keep Relationships Passionate

Girls find drama just as annoying as guys do, but their motive is different. A guy just wants to keep a happy status quo, but the girl cares most about how her reputation could be affected by a guy. She will throw out drama simply because she’s bored and wants something interesting to happen.

To combat random drama and greatly reduce the chances a girl will ever break up with you, create a degree of drama for your girl to be happy and stay in the relationship. What usually happens is that the guy gets closer to the girl and becomes more comfortable. However, the irony is that the more intimate you get, and the higher her comfort gets, the more her attraction goes DOWN!

You should already know by now that when attraction drops for women, they start to look elsewhere. This helps explain the two-year (and multi-year) relationship drops, along with cheating patterns in women. They often occur because the MAN is too comfortable in the relationship and not doing anything to improve it or keep it vibrant.

Sometimes girls will deliberately create friction to lessen boredom. This shows up as drama.

Using Drama to Keep Relationships Passionate

Girls find drama just as annoying as guys do, but their motive is different. A guy just wants to keep a happy status quo, but the girl cares most about how her reputation could be affected by a guy. She will throw out drama simply because she’s bored and wants something interesting to happen.

To combat random drama and greatly reduce the chances a girl will ever break up with you, create a degree of drama for your girl to be happy and stay in the relationship. What usually happens is that the guy gets closer to the girl and becomes more comfortable. However, the irony is that the more intimate you get, and the higher her comfort gets, the more her attraction goes DOWN!

You should already know by now that when attraction drops for women, they start to look elsewhere. This helps explain the two-year (and multi-year) relationship drops, along with cheating patterns in women. They often occur because the MAN is too comfortable in the relationship and not doing anything to improve it or keep it vibrant.

Sometimes girls will deliberately create friction to lessen boredom. This shows up as drama.

Instead of appeasing her and building MORE comfort (you already have enough), remove yourself and get her seduced once again.

Therefore, in every relationship, you must:

• Deal with friction through attraction game whenever she starts giving you crap
• Re-seduce her

If you are already skilled with women and relationships, you likely know this. When the going is too good, you know something’s coming from her soon! However, even if you’re not good with women yet, always keep this in mind when it comes to women and relationships.

A relationship cycle of friction then re-seduction is something every guy MUST maintain. There’s no way around it. This cycle is what ultimately maintains a girl’s attraction to you. By successfully creating this friction and re-seduction, the relationship doesn’t grow stale and lose passion. It’s exactly what she wants from her man.

Comfort doesn’t create passion; tension does. It’s why naturals and bad playboys are so attractive and sexy to girls. They’re masterful at creating the emotional ups and downs that maintain tension, and the girl almost always invests herself even more deeply into the relationship.

 However, we know most guys are terrible at doing this. They inevitably get stuck in situations where they must handle drama from a woman. Always remember that when it happens, unless it’s comfort-based drama, you should NOT placate a woman. Instead, use attraction game to bring her back into your life via re-seduction. By doing so, you can pace the path to her return, while simultaneously maintaining attraction and respect.

Girls ultimately want the exact opposite of what many guys want in relationships. They don’t want sameness; they want variety in emotion and experience. Thus you can create drama (or remove attention) so you re-attract a woman to maintain passion in your relationship.

Varoon.